|Therapy that helps you to heal, grow and evolve your life story

Our collaborative, client-led approach helps you to stop repeating patterns shaped by trauma, anxiety, neurodivergence and other lived experiences and explore what is possible for you through positive change and growth

Based in person in Loughborough and Chelsea and supporting clients from across the UK via online and telephone therapy.

Specialists in trauma. Founded and led by Dr Candice O’Neil Counselling Psychologist DCPsych MSc MA|

You may already have a very clear sense of what you are carrying. 

Anxiety or depression that has taken over your life.

Low mood that has become your new normal. 

Trauma from your past that shapes how you feel and behave today. 

The lasting impact of childhood abuse or neglect. 

A sense that you’re navigating a system that doesn’t fully understand you or create the space to shape your future. 

Or you might simply know that something isn't right but you can’t pinpoint what it is.

The question underneath it is always the same: how did I get here and is it possible to live differently?

That question is at the heart of everything we do at Ontic Psychology.

Your story is always evolving. We empower you to write new chapters and a different ending. 

Led by Dr Candice O'Neil (DCPsych MSc MA), a HCPC-registered Counselling Psychologist with a Doctorate in Psychology and over a decade of clinical experience across the NHS and private practice, we specialise in trauma integration and healing but we can also support you with a range of challenges and difficulties that shape who you are and how you navigate the world and support you to make positive changes to your behaviour through motivational interviewing (a counselling approach that helps you to uncover the motivation to make a positive behavior change).

You never need to relive any traumatic event that brings you to therapy. We focus on making sense of and processing the feelings and emotions linked to it and retraumatisation isn’t necessary or safe. 

Dr Candice O’Neil

  • DCPsych: Doctorate in Counselling Psychology

  • MSc Psychology: GMBPpS British Psychological Society Accredited

  • MA: Leadership and Management

Ontic Psychology proudly provides evidenced based Psychological Services dedicated to your wellbeing.

Ontic Psychology can support you with the following issues 

  • Sexuality

  • Bereavement

  • Depression

  • Complex PTSD

  • Anger

  • Chronic Health Issues

  • Self Harm Behaviours

  • Anxiety

  • LGBTQ+ Issues

  • Identity Issues

  • Career Change

  • OCD

  • Adult Developmental Issues

  • Trauma

  • Negative Thinking

  • Corporate and Individual Performance Coaching

  • Corporate Wellness

  • Relational Issues

  • Phobias

  • Motivation

“Emotions are not just experiences; they feature as a reminder of what is important to us and the principles of which we live by” van Deurzen and Adam

Therapy is built around you: your story, your pace and the life you deserve to be living.

Therapy at Ontic Psychology is client-led, gentle and compassionate. 

Healing is non linear and it cannot be rushed, timed or measured against a standardised scale. 

At Ontic Psychology, our support provides the time and space to navigate the journey for as long as you need. 

Most people who come to us have tried Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) before. It may have offered some relief but didn’t reach the root of what you’ve been carrying, especially exploring the deeper questions of identity, meaning, growth, trauma and relationships that bring so many of our clients to therapy. 

Therapy with Ontic Psychology goes deeper.

Grounded in Existential philosophy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, our approach works with the whole person: your story, your values, your sense of self and your capacity to grow to explore who you are and what becomes possible for you when you start to make conscious choices rather than repeating old patterns. 

For clients carrying the weight of traumatic experiences, it offers a way to integrate them into your story rather than being defined or controlled by them. 

We offer support with no time limits and a six-week review built into every client journey to ensure the support is genuinely meeting your needs and that you remain in conscious control of your own process.

Because real change begins when you can understand yourself clearly enough to start to write a different story for yourself. 

“Having experienced Existential Therapy with Candice, it feels like it gets to the heart of my problems and I now have a greater understanding of how to move past things that held me back. I’ve had therapy before but this has been by far the most effective help I’ve had.” - Huw

Life can only be understood backward but it must be lived forward” Soren Kierkegaard

You become a co-creator of your healing and your future

Your story is ever evolving and ever unfolding.

Therapy at Ontic Psychology is not something that happens to you. It is something we do together with you at the heart of your therapy. 

Your personal autonomy and agency aka your ability to make choices and decisions and proactively take control of your goals, journey and future are the foundations of your care as an Ontic Psychology client. 

You are an active participant in your own story and the relationship between us is a genuine human connection built on compassion, trust, safety, care and transparency. 

Relational depth meets grounded compassion is the experience every client deserves and the standard every session is held to.

The goal isn’t to ‘fix’ you. It’s to help you to understand why you behave in certain ways, rediscover who you are and find ways to make life feel better. 

Rather than managing what is ‘wrong’, we gently work toward unlocking what is possible.

You start to see a future where experiences that once defined you become part of an evolving story rather than a defining wound. 

We see this repeatedly in our clients. 

The client who arrived carrying the weight of childhood neglect and abuse (including years of self-loathing and deeply painful relationships in adulthood) and discovered who they truly were for the first time during therapy. 

Or the client whose severe anxiety meant that leaving the house felt impossible was able to join fitness groups and drive long distances independently just eight months into therapy after separating their sense of self from their anxiety. 

The client who wanted to change their behaviour but needed the right therapeutic approach to unlock the motivation and capacity to create positive changes. 

These client stories are examples of what becomes possible when healing is given the time, safety and depth it deserves.

Therapy that walks alongside you for as long as you need

The expectation that six to eight sessions should be enough to feel better is one of the things that frustrates us most, especially when life is already challenging.

We see the impact of long NHS waiting lists and a limited number of therapy sessions on the clients who seek further therapy support at Ontic Psychology. 

It’s why we provide a client experience that gives our clients the time, safety, compassion and relational depth that is so crucial on your journey and ensures you never feel rushed or abandoned at a critical stage of your healing. 

Your support lasts for as long as you need it to and many of our clients choose to stay with us for more than 20 sessions to fully complete their healing journey in a safe and client-focused environment.

“A responded to person is already a more positively alive one..its not that the interaction affects the individual and then makes him different its in the very ongoing of that interaction that he is already different”- Gendlin

The Ontic Psychology Team

Dr Candice O’Neil

Counselling Psychologist DCPsych MSc MA.

Trauma specialist.

Dr Candice has completed specialist training in supporting individuals who have experienced acute childhood trauma and the PTSD that often accompanies these experiences.

She has completed a Doctorate in Counselling Psychology, including conducting a Doctoral thesis on relational experiencing for adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse. 

While her specialism is supporting clients to heal from trauma following childhood sexual abuse, she is skilled and experienced in supporting clients with everything from everyday challenges to more complex and enduring difficulties. 

This includes adding Motivational Interviewing training to her skillset to support clients with creating the motivation for positive change. 

Dr Candice is a passionate advocate for the neurodivergent community and acts as a board trustee at Autism East Midlands. 

Pavel Gabaj

BACP Registered Psychotherapist & Counsellor

With over 13 years of experience in the UK mental health system, Pavol brings an empathic and compassionate approach to therapy. 

He creates a space where clients feel truly seen and supported, especially when life feels heavy or overwhelming.

Pavol guides clients to go beyond coping and guides towards finding purpose, meaning and a stronger sense of self. 

Working integratively, he draws from person centred, Gestalt, and existential approaches, tailoring his work to each individual’s unique story and integrating different perspectives to support each client in a meaningful way.

Pavol works online with individuals, couples and groups, offering flexible, accessible support wherever you are based. 

He supports clients with:


• Anxiety and depression
• Trauma informed care
• LGBTQ+ affirming therapy
• Relationship and intimacy challenges
• Social anxiety and stress 

To ensure therapy is accessible to all, he provides flexible sliding scale payment options.

Our Services 

We work with clients from across the UK and internationally via online therapy, in person therapy in the Leicester, Loughborough and Chelsea areas or telephone therapy.

In person or Online Psychotherapy Sessions for Individuals

50 minutes

Couples Psychotherapy Sessions

60 minutes

Motivational Interviewing

Counselling therapy designed to help you to create the motivation for positive change

Adult ADHD Assessment and Diagnosis with optional care planning

POA

What becomes possible when therapy goes deep enough

Dr Candice in the media 

Dr Candice is a trusted expert in UK media and television and is regularly asked to contribute her clinical expertise to features, campaigns and conversations on mental health, trauma, relationships and emotional wellbeing. 

A Counselling Psychologist with a Doctorate in Psychology and over a decade of clinical experience across the NHS and private practice, she offers media teams a rare combination: deep academic and clinical expertise communicated in warm, accessible language that resonates with real people. She specialises in trauma, childhood sexual abuse, complex PTSD, anxiety, relationships and emotional wellbeing in everyday life.

She has contributed as a guest expert to platforms such as Sky News, Women's Health, Stylist, Glamour, HuffPost, Hello!, Yahoo News, Vogue India, The Mirror and Metro and has lent her expertise to national campaigns focused on safeguarding the emotional health of vulnerable groups across the UK.

Candice is open to contributing her expertise to new features, campaigns and broadcast opportunities. To discuss a potential media collaboration, get in touch via the contact form below.

FAQs about therapy with Ontic Psychology

Your story is ready to evolve

Making the decision to engage in therapy is a courageous decision and we would love to use our expertise to help you to evolve your story and create the life you deserve. 

Complete the enquiry form below and we will be in touch to arrange an introductory call.